Is Your Spouse Cheating?

Relationships are extremely complicated. For whatever reason you may sometimes feel that you spouse or significant other is cheating on you. Here are some tips and strategies for catching them.

Your best strategy and probably the most emotionally difficult is to play dumb and not act or say anything that would lead your spouse to believe that you know he or she is cheating on you. When your spouse thinks that you are on to him/her, they will be much more cautious and make fewer mistakes. Act as if you don’t expect them to be cheating and you will have a better chance on catching them.

Another tip is to be unpredictable. Don’t provide an easy schedule for your spouse to plan a rendezvous around. Tell them that you will be home later, and arrive early. The more unpredictable you are the less likely they are able to plan safely.

You can also try to pick up clues, such as smell your spouse’s clothing for alcohol, smoke or fragrance. You can also look at the mileage on the car odometer, to see if a long trip has taken place. Keep track of phone calls either at odd hours or quick hang ups.

Keep in mind, it is never easy when a spouse is cheating on you, try not to get emotional, If you have enough evidence, then confront your spouse and determine your course of action.